Solitude

It is interesting how some people struggle deeply with solitude – feeling the absence of others deeply. While others crave it and feel most themselves in solitude. Until Lockdown the norm was to be with people – folk who preferred their own company were considered odd. But now in Lockdown many people find themselves in solitude. For those who are on their own and struggle with solitude (who normally fill their days by meeting friends, going to activities and social events) this time is especially hard.

Yet for those whose life had become so busy but who crave solitude this time has given them the sort of solitude which is invigorating. This time away from the expectation to socialise, to be with people gives them the rest they need.

At this time many are experiencing solitude (being on their own) for the first time. Some are finding it difficult. Others aren’t sure what to make of it. While others are thriving.